The Story of Tammie and Ter (as I remember it)
Had a dream last night and been going through some things that have really made me appreciate Tam's love and support, not that I didn't before but even MORE now.
I don't know if Tam remembers meeting me at 4-H or not - Goddess we were young then. We didn't get SUPER close until high school though, but when we did - it was an instant bond and it's still as strong as it ever was. Tam was there for me through a terribly abusive boyfriend. She was the one I turned to with my dreams, my fears, my questions and my wild stories about the things my parents did. She was there through the trials of Leah and Patrick (who I don't talk about but who is my adopted brother). She stood by me when everyone else turned there backs on me. And you know what? No matter where either of us ends up, we always find each other again and its like no time has passed and we are still the sisters we have always been. Most people have friends for the many different parts of themselves - sports friends, work friends what have you, but Tam was always the one person I didn't have to censor myself with - it didn't matter what the subject or issue - I could say what I felt (regardless of how scary) and she took it in, digested it and I knew she never judged me.
And so my friend - this little blog is just a note so that you know how much you mean to me, how much you will ALWAYS mean to me.
I love you babe - with all my heart.
Ter
PS. This thing is still not letting me post pictures so I'm going to go take some new ones and e-mail them to Aunt Tam and she can post them if she wishes. *huggs*
I don't know if Tam remembers meeting me at 4-H or not - Goddess we were young then. We didn't get SUPER close until high school though, but when we did - it was an instant bond and it's still as strong as it ever was. Tam was there for me through a terribly abusive boyfriend. She was the one I turned to with my dreams, my fears, my questions and my wild stories about the things my parents did. She was there through the trials of Leah and Patrick (who I don't talk about but who is my adopted brother). She stood by me when everyone else turned there backs on me. And you know what? No matter where either of us ends up, we always find each other again and its like no time has passed and we are still the sisters we have always been. Most people have friends for the many different parts of themselves - sports friends, work friends what have you, but Tam was always the one person I didn't have to censor myself with - it didn't matter what the subject or issue - I could say what I felt (regardless of how scary) and she took it in, digested it and I knew she never judged me.
And so my friend - this little blog is just a note so that you know how much you mean to me, how much you will ALWAYS mean to me.
I love you babe - with all my heart.
Ter
PS. This thing is still not letting me post pictures so I'm going to go take some new ones and e-mail them to Aunt Tam and she can post them if she wishes. *huggs*
posted by Tymber at 7:53 AM
3 Comments:
Hey Chick,
*S* I remember 4-H, you were right we were never close then, and we were never close in Maple Grove either, but in High School*nods*..High Shool was different for us.
I remember all those times you mentioned, and though I didn't have most of those problems you were always there for me when I needed you too....Robert and CHuck, in school they were my best guy friends, but you you were my Best friend guy or girl, we had that bond and we still have it, Sisters by choice and that will never change.
There is alot that I coud never tell anyone but you, and I know that you are still the one that will alwyas listen and never judge.
Love you lots Chick, and Miss Mady too, I can't wait fo rmore pics and I will gladly post them for you on my Blog...
Love Always,
Your Friend, Confident and Sister,
Tammie
That's awesome that you have remained so close! I have few good friends, but it has been hard to stay really close since I have been moving every 5 years or so to a new place since High School. It's very special when the bond can last and stay so strong!
Congrats on your baby girl. It's fun that you've let us all be a part of the anticipation and now the new experiences!
G.
Thats my Tam. A wonderful person,beautiful inside and out.
Love Tams Mom
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